Benefits of Group Therapy

The Benefits of Group Therapy: How Group Connection Can Help Adults, Teens, and Kids Thrive

Sometimes, one of the hardest parts of struggling is feeling like you're the only one going through it. Whether you're an adult navigating anxiety, a teenager trying to fit in, or a child learning to manage big emotions, feeling understood can make a meaningful difference.

That's one of the reasons group therapy can be so valuable. It brings people together in a supportive environment where you can learn, grow, and realize you aren't alone.

What Is Group Therapy?

Group therapy brings together individuals with similar experiences, challenges, or goals under the guidance of a trained mental health professional.

Unlike individual counseling, group therapy provides opportunities to learn from others, practice new skills, and develop meaningful connections.

Groups may focus on topics such as anxiety, emotional regulation, social skills, relationships, stress management, or personal growth.

How Can Group Therapy Help Adults?

For adults, group counseling can provide a space to explore challenges while connecting with others who may understand similar experiences.

Benefits may include:

• Feeling less alone: Recognizing that others share similar struggles can reduce isolation.

• Learning new coping skills: Group members can discover different ways to manage stress, anxiety, and everyday challenges.

• Building confidence: Sharing experiences and receiving support can encourage personal growth.

• Improving relationships: Groups offer opportunities to practice communication and develop healthier interpersonal skills.

For some adults, group therapy can also be a helpful complement to individual counseling.

Why Is Group Therapy Helpful for Teens?

Adolescence can be challenging. Between friendships, school expectations, family relationships, and figuring out who they are, teenagers often experience significant emotional and social pressures.

Group therapy gives teens an opportunity to connect with peers in a structured, supportive setting.

Teen counseling groups can help adolescents develop communication skills, manage emotions, build self-esteem, and navigate social challenges.

For teens who feel misunderstood or isolated, discovering that others have similar experiences can be particularly meaningful.

How Can Group Therapy Benefit Children?

Children often learn best through interaction, practice, and age-appropriate activities.

Children's therapy groups can provide a supportive environment for developing important emotional and social skills.

Depending on the group's focus, children may work on:

• Recognizing and expressing emotions

• Developing friendships and social skills

• Managing frustration and disappointment

• Building confidence and self-esteem

• Practicing communication and problem-solving

Group counseling also gives children opportunities to practice these skills with peers while receiving guidance and encouragement.

Is Group Therapy Right for Everyone?

Group therapy can be beneficial, but the right fit depends on each person's needs, comfort level, and goals.

Some people benefit most from individual therapy, while others find that participating in a group provides additional support and opportunities for growth.

A therapist can help determine whether a particular group may be appropriate.

Group Therapy in Ithaca, NY

At Tompkins Community Counseling, we're expanding our services to include a variety of therapy groups for adults, adolescents, and children.

Our goal is to create welcoming, supportive environments where participants can build skills, connect with others, and work toward meaningful personal growth.

Whether you're interested in group counseling for yourself or exploring options for your child or teenager, we're here to help you find an appropriate fit.

Interested in group therapy in Ithaca, NY? Visit Tompkins Community Counseling to learn more about our group offerings and request more information!  

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Jaime Johnson Fitzpatrick LMHC-D, LCMHCS, LCAS, C-DBT is the Clinical Program Director of Tompkins Community Counseling. She is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with Diagnostic Privilege in the State of New York as well as a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist in the State of North Carolina. Jaime is also certified in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) and utilizes various other approaches in her practice.

ADHD in Adults

ADHD in Adults: What It Really Looks Like and How Counseling Can Help

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When people hear “ADHD,” they often picture someone who can't sit still or pay attention. But ADHD can look very different in adults. It may show up as chronic procrastination, losing track of time, forgetting important tasks, struggling to stay organized, or feeling overwhelmed by responsibilities that seem like they should be manageable.

For many adults, understanding ADHD can provide an explanation for challenges they have been facing and trying to overcome for years.

What Is ADHD?

Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is a neurodevelopmental condition that can affect attention, impulse control, organization, time management, and even executive functioning.

Although ADHD generally begins in childhood, symptoms often continue into adulthood. Some people are diagnosed when they're young, while others don't recognize the signs until much later.

Adult life can make these challenges especially noticeable. Work, relationships, finances, parenting, appointments, and household responsibilities all require significant organization and planning. The overwhelm and mental load that comes with this phase of life can really highlight symptoms and make them more difficult to ignore. 

ADHD Is More Than Being Distracted

One common misconception is that people with ADHD simply can't focus.

In reality, someone may struggle to concentrate on a routine task but become completely absorbed in something that interests them. They might put off an important project for hours yet spend a long time focused on another activity.

ADHD can affect the ability to regulate attention, not simply the ability to pay attention.

What Can ADHD Look Like in Adults?

ADHD is different for everyone, but common challenges and symptoms can include:

• Procrastinating even when something is important

• Frequently losing or misplacing things

• Forgetting appointments or responsibilities

• Difficulty starting or finishing tasks

• Feeling chronically disorganized

• Underestimating how long things will take

• Becoming distracted during conversations

• Feeling restless or easily bored

• Acting or speaking impulsively

• Becoming overwhelmed by multiple responsibilities

Having some of these experiences doesn't necessarily mean someone has ADHD. Anxiety, depression, stress, sleep problems, and other concerns can sometimes cause similar difficulties.

ADHD and Executive Functioning

Executive functioning is essentially the brain's management system. It helps us plan, organize, prioritize, remember what needs to happen, and move a task from start to finish.

When executive functioning is difficult, someone may know exactly what they need to do and still struggle to get started.

That's why advice like “just do it” or “try harder” often isn't helpful.

A better question may be:

“What could make this task easier for me to start or manage?”

Finding strategies that work with the way you function can be much more effective than continually criticizing yourself for struggling.

ADHD Can Affect Relationships and Emotions

ADHD-related difficulties can also affect relationships.

For example, forgetting something important, losing track of time, interrupting, or struggling to complete household responsibilities can sometimes be interpreted by a partner as not caring or not listening.

At the same time, the person struggling may feel criticized or as though they're constantly disappointing others.

ADHD can also contribute to frustration, overwhelm, and difficulty managing emotional reactions. Over time, repeatedly struggling with things that seem “easy” for other people can affect confidence and self-esteem.

How Can Counseling Help With ADHD?

Counseling can help adults better understand their patterns and develop strategies that work for them.

Therapy may help with:

• Organization and time management

• Breaking overwhelming tasks into smaller steps

• Procrastination and task initiation

• Managing stress and emotional overwhelm

• Building realistic routines

• Improving communication in relationships

• Addressing negative beliefs about yourself

• Managing anxiety or depression that may occur alongside ADHD

The goal isn't to make someone with ADHD think or function exactly like everyone else. It's to better understand what is difficult, why it may be difficult, and what strategies can make everyday life more manageable.

ADHD Counseling in Ithaca, NY

If attention, organization, procrastination, or feeling overwhelmed is interfering with your everyday life, you don't have to figure everything out by yourself.

Tompkins Community Counseling provides counseling for adults (and adolescents) experiencing a variety of concerns, including ADHD-related challenges, anxiety, stress, relationship difficulties, and feeling overwhelmed by everyday responsibilities.

We offer counseling in-person in Ithaca and telehealth throughout New York State.

Ready to talk with someone?

Contact Tompkins Community Counseling to learn more or schedule an appointment.

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Jaime Johnson Fitzpatrick LMHC-D, LCMHCS, LCAS, C-DBT is the Clinical Program Director of Tompkins Community Counseling. She is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with Diagnostic Privilege in the State of New York as well as a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist in the State of North Carolina. Jaime is also certified in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) and utilizes various other approaches in her practice.

How Do I Know If I Need Therapy?

How Do I Know If I Need Therapy? 7 Signs It May Be Time to Reach Out

Maybe you've been thinking about therapy for a while.

Things don’t feel completely wrong, but something doesn't feel quite right either. You might be more overwhelmed than usual, having the same arguments over and over, or simply wondering why life feels harder than it used to.

And then comes the question: Do I actually need therapy?

The truth is, you don't have to be in crisis to benefit from talking with a therapist. Therapy can be helpful when something is causing ongoing distress or beginning to interfere with your relationships, work, sleep, or everyday life.

1. You Keep Feeling Overwhelmed

Everyone gets stressed. But if you constantly feel like you're trying to catch up, keep everything together, or manage more than you can handle, it may be time to get some support.

You don't have to wait until you completely fall apart.

2. The Same Problem Keeps Coming Back

Maybe it's  anxiety. Maybe it's conflict in your relationships. Maybe you keep putting everyone else's needs ahead of your own.

If you've tried to change something but keep finding yourself back in the same place, therapy can give you another perspective and help you understand what's keeping the pattern going.

3. Your Relationships Are Suffering

When you're struggling emotionally, the people closest to you often feel the impact too.

You may be withdrawing, becoming more irritable, shutting down during difficult conversations, or finding yourself in the same conflicts again and again.

Therapy can provide a place to work through what's happening without having to figure it all out on your own.

4. You're Functioning, But You Don't Feel Okay

This one is easy to overlook.

You're going to work. You're taking care of your family. You're getting things done.

But underneath it all, you feel exhausted, disconnected, anxious, numb, or unlike yourself.

Functioning doesn't mean you're not struggling.

You don't need to have everything falling apart before you're allowed to ask for help.

5. You've Stopped Enjoying Things

If activities, people, or experiences that once brought you joy no longer feel enjoyable, that's worth paying attention to.

Changes in motivation, mood, sleep, and interest can be signs that something deeper deserves attention.

6. Your Usual Coping Strategies Aren't Working Anymore

Maybe you exercise, stay busy, talk to friends, take some time alone, or tell yourself you'll feel better tomorrow.

Those things can be helpful. But sometimes they aren't enough.

Therapy can give you additional tools and a place to understand what's underneath what you're experiencing.

7. You Keep Thinking, "Maybe I Should Talk to Someone"

Sometimes there's no dramatic reason.

You simply have a feeling that talking to someone could help.

That is enough.

You don't need a diagnosis or a perfectly explained problem to begin therapy. You can start with "I don't really know what's wrong. I just know I don't feel like myself."

So, Do You Need Therapy?

There's no test that can tell you whether you're "struggling enough."

A better question may be:

Is something taking up more space in my life than I want it to?

If the answer is yes, therapy may be worth exploring.

At Tompkins Community Counseling in Ithaca, NY, counseling is client-led and goal-focused. Your therapist works with you to understand what you're experiencing, identify your goals, and develop practical strategies that fit your needs. TCC offers office-based, community-based, and online counseling. 

You deserve exceptional mental health care, TCC is here to help. 

You don't have to know exactly what you need before you reach out. That's part of what therapy can help you figure out.

Our office is conveniently located in Tompkins County serving all surrounding areas in person and all of New York through telehealth. Call now to get started!

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Jaime Johnson Fitzpatrick LMHC-D, LCMHCS, LCAS, C-DBT is the Clinical Program Director of Tompkins Community Counseling. She is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with Diagnostic Privilege in the State of New York as well as a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist in the State of North Carolina. Jaime is also certified in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) and utilizes various other approaches in her practice.

What Should I Talk About in Therapy?

What Should I Talk About in Therapy If I Don't Know What's Wrong?

One of the biggest reasons people hesitate to start therapy is surprisingly simple:

"I don't even know what I would talk about."

Maybe nothing specific happened.

You just don't feel like yourself.

You're overwhelmed, stuck, unhappy, anxious, disconnected—or simply not sure what you're feeling.

You don't need to arrive at therapy with an explanation.

"I Don't Know Where to Start" Is a Start

As a therapist I can say that I do NOT expect you to walk through the door with a perfectly organized list of problems.

You might begin with:

"I don't really know why I'm here."

"Things just don't feel right."

"I feel overwhelmed all the time."

"I know I need something to change."

Those are all legitimate places to begin.

Your therapist can help you explore what has been happening, when you first noticed it, what's been difficult, and what you'd like to feel differently.

You Can Talk About What's Happening Right Now

You don't have to start with your entire childhood.

You can talk about what's bothering you this week.

Maybe you're having trouble with your relationship. Maybe work is exhausting. Maybe you're worried about your child. Maybe you're questioning a major decision.

Sometimes the current problem becomes a doorway into understanding a bigger pattern.

You Can Talk About Things You Don't Understand

Therapy can also be a place to explore questions like:

• Why do I react so strongly to certain things?

• Why do I keep ending up in the same kinds of relationships?

• Why can't I relax?

• Why do I feel guilty all the time?

• Why do I shut down when I'm upset?

• Why am I unhappy when everything seems fine?

• Why do I keep putting everyone else first?

You don't need to know the answer.

That's part of the work.

Your Therapist Can Help Guide the Conversation

At Tompkins Community Counseling, therapy is designed to be collaborative and client-led. The goal isn't to force you into a particular approach. Your therapist works with you to identify your needs and goals and then choose strategies and treatment approaches that fit.

TCC also uses a range of therapeutic approaches, including CBT, EMDR, DBT, ACT, psychodynamic therapy, person-centered therapy, solution-focused therapy, IFS, and others.

You Don't Have to Have the Right Words

If you're thinking about therapy but don't know what you'd say once you get there, don't let that stop you.

You can start exactly where you are.

Sometimes the first step is simply saying:

"I don't know what's wrong. Can you help me figure it out?"

TCC is here to help, reach out today! 

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Jaime Johnson Fitzpatrick LMHC-D, LCMHCS, LCAS, C-DBT is the Clinical Program Director of Tompkins Community Counseling. She is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with Diagnostic Privilege in the State of New York as well as a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist in the State of North Carolina. Jaime is also certified in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) and utilizes various other approaches in her practice.

Do I Need Therapy ?

Do I Need Therapy If I Can Usually Handle Things on My Own?

You're the person everyone calls when something goes wrong.

You figure things out. You keep moving. You don't usually ask for help.

So when you're struggling, the idea of seeing a therapist may feel like a foreign concept.

"I've handled worse."

"I'll figure it out."

"I don't want to make a big deal out of it."

But being capable doesn't mean you have to do everything alone.

Being Independent Isn't the Same as Being Fine

You can be a high functioning human being and still benefit from therapy.

Maybe you've handled difficult situations your entire life. Maybe you're the dependable one in your family. Maybe you've learned to push through uncomfortable feelings rather than stop and deal with them.

That may have helped you survive difficult periods.

But sometimes the strategies that helped us get through adversity aren't what helps us build the life we actually want.

What If You Don't Need Someone to "Fix" You?

Counseling isn’t about “fixing” you. 

Therapy is not someone telling you what's wrong or giving you instructions.

It can be a place to think out loud with someone who isn't personally involved in your life.

You can examine a decision, understand a pattern, work through a relationship problem, process something that happened years ago, or simply figure out why you're feeling stuck.

A Few Questions to Consider

Ask yourself:

• Am I spending a lot of energy trying to keep everything together?

• Do I keep dealing with the same problem?

• Am I avoiding something I know I need to address?

• Have people close to me noticed a change?

• Am I handling things, but feeling exhausted by the effort?

• Would it help to have an outside perspective?

If several of these questions make you pause, therapy may be worth considering.

Therapy Doesn't Mean You're Weak

Asking for help can be a sign that you are paying attention.

You don't have to wait until you can't handle something anymore to reach out for help. 

You can seek therapy because you want to understand yourself better, improve a relationship, change a pattern, or make a difficult period easier to navigate.

At Tompkins Community Counseling, counseling is client-led. Your therapist works with you to identify your goals and build on your existing strengths while developing practical strategies for change.

You can be strong, capable, independent—and still deserve support.

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Jaime Johnson Fitzpatrick LMHC-D, LCMHCS, LCAS, C-DBT is the Clinical Program Director of Tompkins Community Counseling. She is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with Diagnostic Privilege in the State of New York as well as a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist in the State of North Carolina. Jaime is also certified in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) and utilizes various other approaches in her practice.

Understand What's Missing…

I'm Functioning, But I Don't Feel Okay. Do I Need Therapy?

You get up. You go to work. You answer the emails. You take care of the kids. You make dinner. You show up for everyone who needs you.

From the outside, you're doing fine.

But you know there's a difference between getting through your days and actually feeling okay.

Maybe you're tired all the time. Maybe you feel numb, anxious, disconnected, or strangely unhappy even though you can't point to one thing that's wrong.

That experience is more common than you might think.

You Don't Have to Be Falling Apart to Be Struggling

One of the biggest misconceptions about therapy is that you need to be in crisis before you "qualify."

You don't.

Sometimes the signs are subtle:

• You're functioning, but everything takes more effort.

• You're constantly looking forward to the next break.

• You don't enjoy things the way you used to.

• You're more irritable or withdrawn.

• You're taking care of everyone else but yourself.

• You feel emotionally exhausted.

• You keep thinking, "I should be happier than I am."

These experiences don't necessarily mean you have a mental health disorder. But they can be signals that something deserves attention.

What If Your Life Looks Fine on Paper?

This can make it especially difficult to ask for help.

You may think:

"Other people have bigger problems."

"I have no reason to feel this way."

"I should be able to handle this."

"What would I even talk about in therapy?"

But emotional struggles don't become less real because your life looks good from the outside. This myth can delay you getting the care you need and deserve for way, way too long. 

Sometimes therapy isn't about fixing a crisis. It's about understanding why you're struggling and figuring out what needs to change.

Therapy Can Help You Understand What's Missing

You may not know exactly why you feel disconnected or unhappy.

That's okay.

Therapy gives you a place to slow down and look at what's happening beneath the surface. Together, you can explore patterns, relationships, expectations, stress, past experiences, and the ways you've learned to cope.

At Tompkins Community Counseling,  therapy is client-led and goal-based. Your therapist works with you rather than simply telling you what you should do.

You Don't Have to Wait Until It Gets Worse

If you've been telling yourself that you'll feel better eventually and "eventually" never seems to come, that may be a good reason to reach out.

You don't have to have the perfect explanation.

You can simply start with:

"I don't know what's wrong. I just know I don't feel like myself."

That's a perfectly valid place to begin.

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Jaime Johnson Fitzpatrick LMHC-D, LCMHCS, LCAS, C-DBT is the Clinical Program Director of Tompkins Community Counseling. She is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with Diagnostic Privilege in the State of New York as well as a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist in the State of North Carolina. Jaime is also certified in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) and utilizes various other approaches in her practice.

What If You Don't Feel Better Yet?

How Long Should You Try Therapy

Before Deciding If It's Helping?

You started therapy because you wanted something to change.

But after a few sessions, you may find yourself wondering:

"Is this actually working?"

It's a fair question… And one that deserves an answer. Unfortunately, there isn’t a clear cut answer. 

There isn't a magic number of sessions that works for everyone. The length of your therapy journey depends on what you're working on, your goals, the approach you're using, and how things develop along the way.

Therapy Doesn't Always Feel Dramatically Different at First

Sometimes progress is obvious.

You may notice that you're sleeping better, arguing less, feeling calmer, or handling situations differently.

But progress can also be much quieter.

You might:

• Catch yourself before reacting.

• Understand a pattern you didn't recognize before.

• Feel more comfortable setting a boundary.

• Have a difficult conversation you've been avoiding.

• Notice your thoughts without automatically believing them.

• Feel more hopeful about a situation.

• Recover more quickly after a difficult day.

Those changes matter too and shouldn’t be ignored. 

What If You Don't Feel Better Yet?

That doesn't automatically mean therapy isn't working.

Sometimes therapy begins with understanding what's actually happening before making significant changes.

It can also take time to find the right therapeutic approach and the right relationship with a therapist.

But if you consistently feel like you're not making progress, it's okay to talk about that.

In fact, you should. This can be a pivotal point in your treatment and even help you to gain really effective skills you can use in other relationships!

Your Therapist Should Know If Something Isn't Working

Therapy is a collaborative process.

You can tell your therapist:

"I'm not sure this is helping."

"I was hoping we'd be further along."

"I don't really understand what we're working toward."

"I think I need something different."

That conversation can provide useful information about what needs to change.

At Tompkins Community Counseling, treatment is designed around your individual goals, with ongoing assessment of progress and the skills and supports you need to move forward.

TCC does NOT believe in a one size fits all approach. You deserve to have care that meets your unique needs and goals. We are here to remove barriers to you getting effective counseling and help you get to where YOU want to be!

How Do You Know When Therapy Is Helping?

A useful question isn't necessarily:

"Am I completely better?"

Instead, ask:

"Is something changing?"

Are you understanding yourself better?

Are you responding differently?

Are you gaining tools?

Are you making choices that feel more aligned with what you want?

Are you experiencing even small improvements in the areas that brought you to therapy?

Those can all be signs that therapy is moving in the right direction.

And Sometimes the Right Answer Is to Try Something Different

Not every therapist is the right fit for every person.

That isn't failure.

The therapeutic relationship matters, and different concerns may respond better to different approaches. TCC offers several treatment modalities and works collaboratively with clients to determine what best fits their needs.

If you're wondering whether therapy is helping, bring the question into the room.

It may be one of the most useful conversations you have there.

Reach out today to get started!

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Jaime Johnson Fitzpatrick LMHC-D, LCMHCS, LCAS, C-DBT is the Clinical Program Director of Tompkins Community Counseling. She is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with Diagnostic Privilege in the State of New York as well as a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist in the State of North Carolina. Jaime is also certified in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) and utilizes various other approaches in her practice.

Why Does Winter Affect Our Mood?

Seasonal Affective Disorder:  You Don’t Have to Just Deal With It

Are you noticing that your mood changes when the days get shorter? You’re not imagining it and you certainly aren’t alone!

Maybe you have less energy. You want to stay home more and hibernate. Getting out of bed feels harder than it used to. You’re sleeping more, reaching for comfort foods, or simply don’t feel like yourself.

For some people, these changes are more than the typical “winter blues”. They may be signs of seasonal affective disorder (SAD), a form of depression that follows a seasonal pattern.

What Does Seasonal Affective Disorder Feel Like?

SAD  can look different from person to person, but if you experience winter patterned symptoms you may notice that you are:

• Feeling down, sad, or more irritable than usual

• Losing interest in things you normally enjoy

• Having less energy or motivation

• Sleeping more than usual

• Wanting to withdraw from friends and family

• Having difficulty concentrating

• Craving carbohydrates or eating more than usual

• Feeling like you are “hibernating” until spring

This isn't simply feeling a little less energetic during the winter. It's noticing a repeated pattern that affects how you feel, function, or connect with other people.

Is It the Winter Blues or SAD?

The concept of what is “normal” is complicated. But…. I would have to say that it is rather normal to have days when the cold, darkness, and shorter daylight hours make you want to stay under a blanket.

SAD is different because these symptoms are more significant and tend to return around the same time each year.

If you find yourself thinking, “Every winter I become a completely different version of myself,” it's worth paying attention to that pattern.

You don't have to wait until your symptoms become severe to reach out for support.

Why Does Winter Affect Our Mood?

Researchers are still learning exactly what causes SAD. Changes in daylight appear to affect the body's sleep-wake rhythms and systems involved in mood regulation. SAD is also more common in people who live farther from the equator, where winter brings greater changes in daylight.

And if you're living in Ithaca, you know firsthand how dramatically the seasons can change.

That doesn't mean every difficult winter is SAD. But if your mood consistently changes as the seasons change, it's worth talking with a professional.

What Can Help With Seasonal Depression?

Treatment for SAD can include psychotherapy, light therapy, and medication, depending on your symptoms.

Therapy can be particularly helpful for understanding the thoughts, behaviors, and routines that tend to change during the winter months. It can also help you develop strategies for staying connected, active, and engaged when your motivation naturally starts to drop.

If this has been a pattern for you you don’t have to wait until things feel unmanageable to reach out for help. 

You Don't Have to Just Get Through Another Winter

If you find yourself dreading winter each year, you don't have to simply deal with it.

A therapist can help you understand what's happening, identify patterns, and develop practical ways to feel more like yourself throughout the year.

At Tompkins Community Counseling in Ithaca, New York, counseling is client-led and tailored to your individual goals and needs. TCC offers office-based and telehealth counseling options.

If you're noticing a seasonal change in your mood and aren't sure whether it's something you should address, reaching out can be a good place to start.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is seasonal affective disorder the same as depression?
SAD is a type of depression that follows a recurring seasonal pattern. A mental health professional can help determine whether your symptoms may be related to SAD or another concern.

When should I seek help for seasonal depression?
If changes in your mood, energy, sleep, motivation, or relationships are interfering with your daily life—or if the same pattern keeps returning each year—it may be worth talking with a mental health professional.

Can therapy help with seasonal affective disorder?
Yes. Psychotherapy (aka counseling) is an effective treatment used for SAD and can help with thoughts, behaviors, routines, and coping strategies that contribute to seasonal depression.

Do I have to wait until winter to get help?
No. If you know that your mood tends to decline during the fall and winter, getting support early may help you prepare for the season ahead.

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Jaime Johnson Fitzpatrick LMHC-D, LCMHCS, LCAS, C-DBT is the Clinical Program Director of Tompkins Community Counseling. She is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with Diagnostic Privilege in the State of New York as well as a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist in the State of North Carolina. Jaime is also certified in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) and utilizes various other approaches in her practice.

What Can Therapy Do for Anxiety?

How Bad Does Anxiety Have to Be Before You Need Therapy?

If you can still go to work, take care of your responsibilities, and get through the day, it isn’t a problem…. Right? 

Maybe you tell yourself you're just stressed.

Or that everyone worries.

Or that you'll deal with it when things calm down.

But anxiety doesn't have to completely upend your life before it deserves attention. Your mental health matters and you deserve support. 

When Does Anxiety Become a Problem?

Some anxiety is a “normal” part of life. It can even be useful—it can alert us to problems and help us prepare for something important.

The concern is when anxiety starts taking up too much space. It doesn’t need to be a main character in your life. 

You might notice:

• Constant worrying that is difficult to shut off

• Trouble relaxing even when things are going well

• Difficulty sleeping because your mind won't slow down

• Avoiding situations because they make you anxious

• Tension in your body or feeling constantly on edge

• Repeatedly seeking reassurance

• Irritability or difficulty concentrating

• Anxiety interfering with relationships, work, school, or everyday activities

The APA recommends considering therapy when an emotional problem is causing significant distress or interfering with important areas of life. In short, what causes problems is a problem and you deserve support. 

You Don't Have to Wait Until Anxiety Controls Your Life

This is important.

If you're still functioning, that doesn't mean your anxiety isn't affecting you.

Maybe you go to work—but spend the entire day worrying.

Maybe you go out with friends—but spend days beforehand thinking about everything that could go wrong.

Maybe you sleep—but wake up exhausted because your mind never seems to shut down.

Therapy can help before anxiety becomes completely overwhelming.

What Can Therapy Do for Anxiety?

Therapy can help you understand your anxiety, identify patterns that keep it going, and develop practical ways to respond differently.

Different therapeutic approaches can be helpful for anxiety, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and other approaches depending on your goals and needs. TCC uses several treatment approaches and works with clients to identify what fits their situation. You deserve to choose your therapist and have a plan that is right for you. 

What If I'm Not Sure My Anxiety Is "Serious Enough"?

You don't have to diagnose yourself before making an appointment.

If anxiety is bothering you, affecting your quality of life, or simply making life harder than you want it to be, it's reasonable to talk with someone.

Therapy isn't a punishment for not coping well enough.

It's a resource.

At Tompkins Community Counseling in Ithaca, counseling is designed around your goals, your needs, and your pace. Reach out today to get started!

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Jaime Johnson Fitzpatrick LMHC-D, LCMHCS, LCAS, C-DBT is the Clinical Program Director of Tompkins Community Counseling. She is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with Diagnostic Privilege in the State of New York as well as a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist in the State of North Carolina. Jaime is also certified in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) and utilizes various other approaches in her practice.